Dec 30, 2007

Critical self-assessment 3 -- relationship

Whenever I travel, I enjoy a lot the freedom of going wherever I want to go and doing whatever I want to do. That's exactly the reason why I prefer not to travel with a group. And then I get this frightening idea that if I were to travel with a girl, I have to compromise my choices. Then even more frightening is that life is like travel. Am I not ready for a relationship yet?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I felt the same for a long time. I strived to be alone but at the same time I felt being alone was limiting what I would define as the expansion of my soul.
Being alone limits your thought to run in circles, limited by the boundaries of your assumptions, beliefs, credos. Opening yourself to others let them once in a while knock your thought out of that circle to a wider circle, encompassing more reality, more truth.

Wendong said...

Thanks for all your comments. They are enlightening. Especially this one.